There is this guy that keeps coming across to me as slimy. I have known this guy for what seems like ages, but the slime is just starting to ooze from places it never oozed from before. Is it possible that I just never noticed before?
I know sometimes as women we try to pretend like we don't know certain things are happening in relationships. Is this also the case for platonic friendships? I'm trying to let this guy go because he doesn't understand why this slime that he is giving off is repulsing.
He does things like invite people out and not pay the bill, change plans at the last minute, and hate on the other people involved in his friend's life. These qualities make me wonder should I surround myself by someone that I do not feel would make ANYONE a good life partner?
NO, we should only allow ourselves to be around people that have good qualities. I realize there are people who are around us that we not exactly attracted to;do not have a good chemistry with--those are not the people we should avoid. If someone does not have basic human decency qualities, then we should not continue to allow them to hang around us--even in friendship.
When do guys turn into Men? Or does this guy continue to act the way he would have in high school because we were friends even then. I'm not really sure how I feel about this entire situation, I just kind of realized that he's not worth hanging out with. We can't do anything without me having to ask him to be a gentleman in the situation. If I treated him the way he treats me--he wouldn't want to be my friend either.
That's enough of a reason to not be friendly about anything. I'm not angry at what has happened, as I realize the reason he has continued in such a manner is because I have not required better. Maybe he will realize that he needs to do better with the next friend, but this is not being done as a punishment but to protect myself from the embarrassment that I feel by being associated with someone like him.
The friendship was good while it lasted, but now it's over. The more I look around the more I realize, that I'm cutting people off. Maybe it's just temporary and I have deal with my own issues. Who knows....
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