Love and it's Fluidity

So I have been playing around with the idea that love is a fluid emotion. It's something that I think a lot of times we do not fully understand the fluidity of love, we are expecting the love in our relationships to be solid and the basis of all else. This is really not the case...we need to change our mindsets and notice how this changes things based on just that.

Love does not keep us from being lonely...long distance love can sometimes still be lonely. Love does not make work any easier...though it is nice to have someone to vent to about work, or not discuss work with at all. Love does not help the bills get paid when the budget doesn't quite work out. Love can be fun when it is not abused or expected to meet the needs of some other emotion or requirement.

A stable and healthy relationship is based on truth and honest. A stable and healthy relationship is one in which we are able to recognize our partners flaws and we are able to work together on creating a relationship that solidifies our love.

We are capable of creating a place for our love to be grown....we must provide ourselves with those chances. We must allow our minds the chance to process what our hearts, wallets, and bodies are feeling. We have to create a relationship that will be to love like dark, wet places to bacteria.

We have to find someone who has a spirit of creativity, compassion and desire that will work cohesively with our spirit, creative minds, and desires. Once we stop looking at the superficial and begin to examine the true heart of a person we will be able to build an openness with someone that would be conducive to love.

I have realized now that even if I don't find love that's okay. I may be alone for the rest of my life, but I won't be lonely because I will find companionship someplace else. I'd be fine in a happy loving, marriage even if it's not with "the greatest love ever" I will be with someone who is stable and real and we enjoy each other....the key to finding love is to find happiness.